Mission Statement

The intention of this organization is to teach people how to develop relationships in all areas of life. Through expert coaching, people will discover their personal truth, be able to express that truth in a clear, unambiguous manner and in turn listen keenly. The resulting paradigm shift will bring ease and calm as an instinctive way of being in life. Stress and anxiety become things of the past as we shift our relationship with ourselves and consequently with others. This new found ability to develop and maintain relationships will result in success, Love and happiness beyond the wildest of dreams…

Introduction

Humanities Most Important Endeavor: Relationships

Relationships are the single most important endeavor of humanity. Success in business, friendship, family and Love is predicated solely on our ability to develop and maintain relationships. Where there is unhappiness, discontent or crisis there is always a breakdown in one or more relationships.

When relationships become troubled the time has come to turn your focus inward. ALL of the answers are already within you. It is your job to find them. That’s where the hard work begins. If you find yourself asking the question, “What exactly am I looking for?” you are in a good place. If you don’t know what your looking for, how can you find it? What you are looking for is elusive, confusing and disguised by years of conditioning and meaning making. What you seek is your truth.

You know you have found your truth when a great sense of calm and serenity have overcome you. You have experienced an epiphany. Anxiety does not exist. You feel centered and balanced - even if your truth is something you do not wish to hear. This sense of calm is useful in the next step of the process - speaking your truth.

Merely knowing your truth is not enough. You must then share your truth with the people with which you are in relationship - clearly and detached from the outcome. This can be a slippery slope as many times what you mean and what you say are two different things. Also, you become attached to peoples reaction to your truth. The arts of clear communication and detachment are essential skills of expressing your truth and thus maintaining flourishing relationships.

Once you know your truth and speak your truth clearly and detached from the outcome, it is time to listen keenly. One of the greatest gifts you can give a person is your listening. I assure you that when a person knows they are heard, they will be calm and receptive. Why do you think people feel the need to shout? Because they are not being heard and instinctively speak louder. Listening is a skill few posses.

This book is designed to give you the knowledge and awareness required to uncover your truth and express it clearly without attachment and then listen keenly. It takes practice to learn how to think about life differently. You will find that this new paradigm transforms your life. As you change the way you think, your relationships blossom and along with them all of your wildest dreams…